This is a letter to wife from husband who:
- Is mature enough to express his feelings.
- Knows that almost every couple goes through hard phases, be it related to their own emotions or any other issue.
- Is ready to finish the relationship forever at one point and the other moment he realizes that he will be having no good life without her.
- Knows that silly fights, love, and temporary feelings of hatred are so natural to have in any relationship.
I was not afraid to say this in person to you.
I wanted to convey precise sentiments and probably this letter will do.
No, my EGO doesn’t stop me to tell you upfront.
It’s kind of something unknown in me, which is in-built.
It’s been a long time, we talked like a couple.
Even I don’t remember, when did we last cuddle?!
This is not the list of complaints I have with you.
It’s just that I am trying to explain my inherent nature that rings true.
“I am your wife. If I don’t know you then who knows you?”
This question would come in your mind. I already knew.
Well, people can live with each other for years together.
Still, they might not know sheerly about one and the other.
You know, sometimes I express my opinions and unwanted views to you.
The purpose is not at all to belittle you, just have this clue.
The point I am going to raise next can make you feel confused.
No, I am not saying… “Heads I win, Tails you lose”.
Your unsolicited words of advice like mine to you provoke me so bad.
But yes, your support without criticization makes me feel so glad.
When you don’t like a particular behavior of mine,
it’s better to say it subtly rather than judging me for life and whine.
I don’t like it when you give a lecture on my dressing sense.
“This color looks good on you, would you try wearing it hence?”
This way, you can make me have no offense.
See, even I am telling you, how to not make it too intense.
Watching Television or News on Phone
is just my way of releasing tensions temporarily alone.
I agree excess of anything should not be done.
But, it applies to not only one but everyone.
When I go silent after an argument, you imagine the worst.
Sometimes I prefer to be in my cave, and sometimes I expect you to reach me first.
Our relation is sacred and pure.
We should try to understand each other and of course, adore.
We solve our friends’ family matters with our respective advice.
But, when did you and even I work for us and act ‘wise’?
All things; I can’t convey in this small letter.
If we communicate well from now, won’t it be better?
Before we communicate, we have to be good listeners and act ‘intelligent’.
To make it easy, if you want to, you can come up with “Dear Husband”.